I agree with everything above!
To add to that...
- For that tough plug (#3), I went the route of removing things in the way. Your choice...struggle for less time, or spend more time, but be less hassled.
- I put a dab of anti-seize on the plug threads. It is not called for by Ford (or Honda for our other car), but I prefer to use it since you are threading a steel plug into an aluminum head. It's a controversial subject. I've just used the stuff for many years and will continue to do so.
- I like to use compressed air to blow out the hole before removing the plug. Even with how well our coils seal, my car had some dirt in the wells. Better to get that out so you don't have an issue threading the new plugs.