Okay, the next revision fixed the "wheel hop" issue. Now, it "bangs" into 2nd from 1st at WOT, as you would expect it to, but no violent shaking feeling. And, a cursory internet read reveals that the WOT shifts are usually hard after a tune until the car adapts. I take that with a grain of salt, but it is satisfactory now anyways.
As for the cruise thing, I need to drive it for a week or so and feel it out. It is unclear to both me and Torrie whether the altered shift points (that mitigate the flutter) apply when the car is operating in cruise control. Torrie reports there are a total of 10 shift tables, so it could be that the car operates under different tables, presumably still in stock configuration, when the cruise control is engaged.
I will report back for the greater good.