To each their own. It is very important to find the car to fit you and your needs.
I used to drive a 08 Civic Hybrid. I had close to 100k on that car when I sold it, and getting just under 40 mpg average on cheap low grade gas, my daily commute in DC traffic was not overly costly (bought too late to get HOV plates). Being 5'10 with a skinny frame I outgrew that car quick. Traveling out West to hit the wineries or visit family means traversing mountains, I had to floor the civic (yes, again it was a hybrid) just to make any slight inclines. The three factors that caused me to sell in order were: too small, warranty for the battery was almost up, lack of power.
My SHO is my dd now, and while I wish I wasnt putting the miles on it, the drive is less impactful to my body. I'm only 31, but after spending 6 years in a Civic my eyes have been opened to a whole new level of space! I even looked at the baby-Caddy (ATS) and it reminded me of the Civic. Almost bought a used CTS-V but was too afraid of it in the winter... smart move on my part, our winter was bad this year.
If you cant afford a Tesla, then I think you're stuck with a trade off. Mazda's sky drive equipped vehicles does have some promise, but as a daily driver I wouldn't want that much tactile feedback from the drive train.