There is a fine line on the hot side that you have to walk. You need to have enough back pressure to get the chargers spooled, but keep it low enough not to send the heads sky high. The waste gates help bleed off that pressure at higher rpms, but at the same time, that is wasted energy.
The way to combat that is where I'm guessing your buddy was hinting at, which would be to hang some variable geometry turbos on there which will allow the computer to control the size of the exhaust housing a/r by adjusting a set of fins in the turbine housing. Here is how it looks on my truck. I went from a stock 58mm compressor to a 64.7mm wheel with almost zero change in lag...

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