thanks for the logs..
So we have some good news and interesting news. from the 275+ seconds (WoT)
Both TQ-converters 'behave' in the logs the same. Assumption, there fine.
RPM curves are basically the same, so the 'power' is the same. IE it is able to make' the requested power.
BUT ::
yours 100% has a fueling issue. Your OAR keeps fluttering. His is rock steady.
Yours has much larger more abrupt spikes in throttle blade position under WoT, unsure about the meaning at this time but it is a very noticeable metric
Yours has LTFT elevated under WoT as compared to your fathers rig, in particular Bank#1 .. its only .5 off... but it is a difference to note and again points to a fueling issue
STFT are both erratic .. still sorting that out
YOUR waste-gates are operating 10% higher when ramping to 3rd gear, i seem to recall you have rebuilt yours so it is a metric id discount.. but noted
Both have solid AFR so the ecu in yours is doing its job to maintain proper mix.. but the fluttering OAR is suspicious. I am surprised the tuner did not comment on it ..

so not the TQ-converter or sending unit. this looks like it is going backwards to a fueling issue, or a issue with the intercooler having A LOT LOT LOT of flammable goop in it.
Out of curiosity ... how much oil are you putting in the truck between oil changes?