I don't think that 150K is bad at all, but yeah, I understand no one wants to pay for parts after the sale, but stuff is bound to happen. I think that comparatively, Ford has done pretty well in the reliability department, but certainly it cannot be bulletproof. There are some trends that should not be, like door latches and shifters and APIMs etc. mostly on the electronics side of things, where Ford should step up to the plate.
Anyway, try to see if there is a new calibration for the PCM, maybe Livernois can check since they have the latest OEM strategies available. If there IS an update available, try that first. Quite a few trans issues have been "resolved" by an updated calibration. Sometimes an updated TSS/OSS sensor duo is what it needs.