I figured out all the parts and even if I could get all the painting done on the barter system (which I can), the parts themselves were more than I wanted to spend...I think I stopped counting at about 4000.00.....head lights alone are about 1100 each.... then you need side rails, rear bumper and valence, front bumper, body colored large trunk strip, etc etc. If you left the headlights alone (I personally am not crazy about the tinted lights), I think I still came up with about 2000 in parts plus painting. Like I said, I considered JUST doing the rear bumper/valence, but after seeing your photo (and your updated photo) decided against that today. I feel it needs to be all or nothing. LOL. I am getting all the light grey in my grill body colored though - leaving the chrome....just getting rid of all the light grey.
Bottom line for new buyers, if you want the appearance package, get a car that came with it from FORD, or find a donor car from a flood or hail storm....because we basically need plastic parts from all sides.