Maybe that rookie just thought you looked dashingly hot, & desired to see more of you, & up close.
Now that he's had his curiosity piqued, he wrote you a warning so that you lighten up the tint, so he can see more of you, on a more recurring basis, during those times you happen to drive past each other.
Haha.

Not making light of your predicament, but rather just trying to interject a lil humor into your plight.
It'll get better soon enough my friend.
Go enjoy a few cold -------->

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