Thanks guys , I'm still messing around with the fuses Ive tried to compare fuse #90-92 2013+ to my 2010 and there is nothing as comparable other than the PCM. Ive tried emailing and calling Dan but no answer maybe on vaca, so ill keep messing around.. The lights are in the PCM fuse and are working fine its just they don't turn on with the unlock/lock because the power is hooked up to the ignition On/off (selected fuse slot). I didn't however hook up the auto dimmer don't know if that has to do with it or just the dimming when the headlights are on ?.
Other than that LOVE the lights Huge difference and fairly easy install not much to worry about other than fuses

, and just a note if you do get them they come with quick splice connects THEY ARE GARBAGE**(don't cut the wire enough for a connection) just do the old fashion cut splice and soldering
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Guess i should read more and look around more just saw the post about the added addapter for the courtesy light so i guess i'm going to be ordering some more stuff !!